Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Acapulco Disaster Relief

     Victor and the crusade team pulled out around 8:00 a.m. a week ago this past Sunday morning here from Refuge Ranch on their way to an Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusade in the Acapulco area. 

     (In fact, they are on their way back home today.  I started writing this blog the day they left and figured I better post it before they are actually home again!  I love writing, but due to Danny's death, and Victor being gone on crusade for 10 days, which leaves me totally in charge here at home, this blog has, I believe, broken a record for taking so long to write!)

     This crusade had already been previously scheduled, but recently metamorphosed into a disaster relief crusade.

Victor and some of the EMMC leaders and volunteers with their new, 
lightweight disaster relief t-shirts and vests.

We purchased the vests and t-shirts and then did all of the
 silkscreening and iron-ons ourselves in order to save money.

     A little over three weeks ago tropical storm Manuel dumped torrential rains on the state of Guerrero (at the same time as Hurricane Ingrid hit Mexico's east coasts, causing severe flooding in many other eastern and central states). These rains caused rivers and lagoons to pour over into local communities, even totally flooding out the Acapulco International Airport. During one of the national news reports, the reporter floated through the airport terminal in a small motor boat!


Damage to the local village streets.  This picture, and the next,
 were taken by one of the local Christians and one of our best friends.

     While the main tourist drag through Acapulco was barely affected, many of the impoverished communities where Fishers of Men has been working this year through the partnership with the Guerrero Baptist Association and the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma were totally covered with water and layers of mud.

One of the collapsed bridges

People walking across that same bridge when our 
team arrived in Guerrero on Sunday, September 29.

     So, Victor upped efforts to take to Acapulco the relief needed. The team left for Guerrero with four vehicles: the fifteen passenger van, two pick up trucks packed to capacity and a borrowed 3 1/2 ton truck with donated items, such as clothing, imperishable food items and personal hygiene items, with plans to meet up with a fifth truck coming from another city on the way.

Victor driving Cirino's pick up truck.

Adrian driving one of the Fishers of Men trucks loaded down.


Brother Max heading out with the fifteen passenger van with some of the volunteers.

The borrowed 3 ½ ton truck full of donated items for the flood victims.

En route

     Besides the additional supplies, volunteers and financial resources dedicated to these relief efforts, the team also plans on staying at least 10 days to work in some of the most affected areas, a much longer crusade than normal. These efforts will be coordinated by the local pastors and missionaries with whom we have worked before in order to make sure that the aid goes directly to those most in need. Some of those same pastors and missionaries have even lost all of their own belongings but are serving others first.

The home of one of the local pastors.

One of the local pastors and the books he has lost.

 Only Jesus can put a smile like this on one's face after not only watching much of your congregation and church lose everything, but, in the process, having lost all of your own personal belongings too!

     It is hard to fully explain the scope of this disaster, but, several weeks after the disaster, there are still over 500 communities that continue to be incommunicable from the rest of the state, several tunnels and sections of the toll road are destroyed and the trip to Acapulco from our house requires 8-10 hours of driving, rather than the usual 4-5 hours.

Coyuca de Benitez, just north of Acapulco, under water

So, Victor has been spending the last 10 days doing disaster relief. 


One of the streets the team drove down to get to their work site.

Victor and Dr. Escamilla coordinating efforts with local government officials.

The team's first project: cleaning out 12 inches of mud from a public kindergarten so that they can use the school as their temporary medical clinic for several days of the crusade. 
 This is the patio of the school.


Rosa walking down a path through the muddy school patio.


The team ready to get to work.


Using a special machine to scrape....


...and then carting the mud off by the wheelbarrow and bucketful.
This is Victor with a load of mud.




     I have also spent the last ten days doing disaster relief, but here at Refuge Ranch.....relieving some of the ache of the disasters our children have survived in their short lifetimes by loving them day in and day out. (Then there is the disaster relief that one carries out during true disasters: breaking up sibling fights, holding crying children with broken hearts over Danny's loss or taking a child to the hospital after banging her foot against a door in order to make sure the toe isn't broken....like happened to Martha yesterday.)  I have also worked on disaster prevention by seeking to instill in our children the love for Christ, values and habits that they will need to prevent the disasters that they have suffered in life from happening to their own families one day when they themselves are husbands and wives, fathers and mothers.

     Thank you for all you do, your prayers, your giving, your encouragement, to make these disaster relief efforts possible...both with the Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusades and at Refuge Ranch!

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Remembering Danny

Here is a video that Diana and Angie put together for Danny's funeral that I have wanted to share with you.  Diana translated it into English so that you could enjoy it!




I so want to write about how we are doing, all of the feelings and dealings around our hearts and home, but I am still struggling to put all of that into words.

We are heading out this morning to go camping with the kids for a week.  We had agreed to go camping as a family when Danny got out of the hospital.  Since he is no longer in the hospital it is time to go camping! We are praying that it be a relaxing, special time as a family and will help us adjust to our new normal and launch us back into school and our other activities upon our return.

Thank you for your continued prayers!

Friday, September 13, 2013

Danny's Funeral and Burial/El Funeral y Entierro de Daniel

Danny's casket at the funeral with the Fishers of Men crusade shirt that he never got to wear, given to him by Adrian.
El ataud de Danny en el funeral y la playera de las caravanas de Pescadores de Hombres que nunca llego a poner.  Fue un regalo de Adrian. 


Our precious Danny
Nuestro Precioso Danny 


Some of his siblings saying goodbye
Algunos de sus hermanos despidiendose 


The service
El servicio 


We will choose to praise the Lord
Escogeremos alabar al Senor

We asked for balloons at the funeral to celebrate Danny's life! 
Quisimos tener globos en el funeral para celebrar la vida de Danny!



Praise Jesus for so much love and support!
Gracias a Dios por tanto amor y apoyo! 

 Victor and a part of his family.
Victor y una parte de su familia.

Walking to the burial.
Caminando al entierro.

I thank the Lord for my husband who slept on the hospital floor for an entire month and who has been strong at our side!
 Le doy gracias a Dios por mi esposo quien se durmio en el piso de hospital todo un mes y quien ha estado fuerte a nuestro lado.

 The cemetery
El cemeterio

Starting to dig the hole...many of the men who have played an important role in Danny's life
Empezando a escarbar el hueco...muchos de los hombres que han jugado un papel importante en la vida de Daniel 

Daddy helping dig Danny's grave...Jesus help us!
Papa ayudando a escarbar la tumba de Daniel...Jesus ayudanos!

Adrian digging...God give us strength!
Adrian escarbando...Dios da nos fuerza!

The two grandmas
Las dos abuelas

Danny's siblings: Leo, Fatima, Alejandro, Miguel and Daddy carrying Danny's casket
Los hermanos de Danny: Leo, Fatima, Alejandro, Miguel y Papa cargando el baul de su hermanito 




Saying goodbye!
Diciendo adios!

 Sweetheart, I miss you so!
Mi amor, te extrano tanto!

David spent most of the funeral and burial stationed right there....at Danny's head! His first question when he understood that Danny had died was: "Who am I going to play with?" 
 David paso la mayoria del funeral y entierro aqui mismo...a la cabeza de Daniel! Su primera pregunta cuando entendio que Daniel habia muerto fue: "Con quien voy a jugar?"

Jesus will help you, David!
Jesus te ayudara, David!

Another kiss!
Otro beso!


Thank you Jesus, for all of those who attended the burial and helped us transition into our new life without Danny! Gracias, Jesus, por todas las personas que asistieron al entierro y nos ayudaron a hacer la transicion a la vida sin Daniel!
  



Daddy, Josiah and Grandpa helping fill in the grave
Papa, Josias y Grandpa ayudando a llenar la tumba


Placing flowers
Poniendo flores

Victor and I with Danny's two sets of grandparents at his grave
Victor y yo con los dos pares de abuelos en su entierro

Danny's grave
El entierro de Daniel


Dinner at the house after the burial
La comida en la casa despues del entierro


A wonderful time of sharing and friendship that helped take the sting out of the day for a few hours
Un tiempo maravilloso de companerismo que ayudo a quitar el aguijon de ese dia por un par de horas




 Irma, Lolis and Diana
Irma, Lolis y Diana

 The faithful, loving, generous kitchen crew
El equipo fiel, amoroso y generoso de la cocina


We love you, sweetie! Can't wait to see you again...and hold you!

Te amamos, amor! No podemos esperar verte otra vez...y abrazarte y cargarte!