Saturday, July 7, 2012

Photo Essay - EMMC to Oaxaca

Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusade/Campana Medica Misionera y Evangelistica
San Juan Zautla, Oaxaca
June 17-22, 2012 / 17-22 de junio, 2012

776 individuals attended to
776 individuos atendidos

200+ accepted Christ as their Lord and Savior
 200+ aceptaron a Cristo como su Senor y Salvador   

300+ children attended evangelistic events
300+ ninos asistieron a eventos evangelisticos
     

 The winding road/El camino de curvas


Stopped along the way/Parados en el camino



Going around a portion of the road covered by a washed-out hill/Dando la vuelta a un deslave


 Foggy dirt roads/Caminos de terraceria y neblina

 Patients patiently waiting/Pacientes esperando pacientemente

 Morning devotions at the local church/Devocionales del equipo en la manana en la iglesia local
Walking down from the church to the crusade site/Caminando de la iglesia al sitio de la caravana

  


 Doctors at work/Doctores trabajando

 Registration and Intake/Recibiendo los pacientes

The dentists at work/Los dentistas trabajando

 Local children...do you see the bananas on the banana tree behind them?/Ninos...ves los platanos en el arbol de banana atras de ellos?




 Victor "the electrician" connecting electricity for the crusade/Victor "el electrico" conectando la electricidad para la caravana

 Isabel the optometrist/Isabel la optometrista


New glasses!/Nuevos lentes!

 Free haircuts/Cortes de cabello gratis
The pharmacy with free medication/La farmacia con medicina gratuita

A local believer sharing the Gospel in native dialect/Un creyente local compartiendo el evangelio en su dialecto nativo

The first time the villagers had seen clowns!/La primera vez que los habitantes del pueblo habian visto payasos!
 
 Evangelistic clown ministry/Ministerio evangelistico de payasos

The Gospel was shared with the children no matter what time they came to the crusade./El evangelio fue compartido con los ninos a la hora que fuera.



Adrian and Vero and their Oaxacan umbrellas!/Adrian y Vero y sus paraguas Oaxaquenas

You do what you have to do!/Haces lo que sea necesario!

 All work and no play?  Nah!  Dr. Bill entertains the crowd with his harmonica!/Puro trabajo?  Olvidalo!  El Dr. Bill entretiene a las multitudes con su harmonica!
Oaxacan beauty!  To God be the Glory!/La belleza de Oaxaca!  A Dios sea la Gloria!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

A Tribute

How do you write a tribute about a person that shouldn't even be gone?  It has been nearly a month since the Lord took two precious people home to Heaven - Julie and Timothy Kurrle.  Since then I have been "wanting" to write a blog...."wanting" is not the right word.  Who "wants" to write about something like this?  I have been needing to write this blog.  I have been avoiding writing this blog.  I don't feel worthy to reflect on Julie's life as there are people who were so much closer to her than I.  I don't want to have to fully face all of my feelings and fears.  At this point, I am simply compelled to write this blog.

On April 18, Julie Kurrle, a precious friend, and her six year old son Timothy (my choice for Ruth's future husband since the day he was born!) were killed in a tragic car accident while serving as missionaries in Paraguay.  Norberto, husband to Julie and devoted father to Timmy, and their daughter, Anahi, survived the accident and are now fighting to find their way without the light and love of Julie and Timmy shining at their sides.

 
Norberto and Julie Kurrle with Anahi and Timmy

I am not even sure when Julie and I met, but by our senior year at Anderson University we became roommates, sharing a campus apartment with two other best buddies.  While Julie and I didn't move in exactly the same social circles at school, we had one passion that connected us until now, and for all of eternity...our passion for Jesus!

Julie shared my joy the day that Victor asked me to marry him....that day was Victor's birthday, November 11, 1997, so I had planned on making him a great Mexican meal to really impress the man whom I dreamed of marrying.  (That's a whole other blog post that I would also rather avoid writing...due to the embarrassment it would cause me.  Just think "crunchy rice." :-0)  I had also purchased some sparkling cider to make the birthday dinner extra special.  As dinner time approached, I opened the kitchen cupboard to get out the cider, but there was no cider!  Considering that I had gone grocery shopping at about 2:00 a.m. at Meijer's, I figured I had misplaced the cider.  However, after searching the car, my bedroom, every cupboard, etc., I gave up and forgot about the mystery.  Victor arrived and the evening ended much different than I had planned....with an engagement ring on my finger! 

After getting back to the apartment and telling "the girls" all the gushy details, Julie disappeared and came back with sparkling cider....my sparkling cider...the missing sparkling cider!  She, and the other girls, knew all about Victor's plan to propose, including his intentions to serve me sparkling cider (out on the dock over the pond in the park....oops!  that's another blog!).  So, when Julie realized that I had also purchased sparkling cider, she hid mine in the bottom of her dirty laundry bin!  Nope, I hadn't looked there!

Then, spring break our senior year the four of us roomies decided to take a road trip to the Grand Canyon!  OK, so it was over 24 hours of straight driving and we had only one week!  We took turns driving and drove straight through!  We saw the Grand Canyon and then visited another friend in Colorado, went rapeling, caving, snow-shoeing, slid backwards down a mountain road, just about missed Monument Valley National Park by driving through it at night (didn't even realize we would be driving through it, but we got too tired to keep driving, slept parked in a hotel parking lot and woke up in the morning to an incredible sunrise over a spectacular landscape ), had to sit on the trunk of the car to close it, used a snowbank for a cooler (duh, we went camping in March in the Grand Canyon- hadn't thought about that one either and just about froze that first night!), etc.  The most memorable part of the trip?  It soon became a tradition that anytime the four of us reached a goal, did something incredible or simply had just survived another crazy experience, one of us would break into the Doxology.  The other three would promptly stop whatever they were doing and join right in!  We sang the Doxology in the craziest places...the most memorable rendition was right on the edge of the Grand Canyon after having spent the entire day hiking to the lowest point you can reach and get back out in one day.




Julie - we're going to sing the Doxology again with an even more incredible view than the Grand Canyon!  Hold on, girl, I'll be there...in His time!

I hadn't seen Julie in years, but had become to marvel at how similar our lives had become.  I could identify so readily with many of her blog entries about the missionary life, Latin American culture, ministry, work teams, motherhood.  Then, when she and Norberto began the adoption process my heart just about burst!  I thanked the Lord over and over again for having given me friends so many years ago that, although things weren't clear at the time, it was now obvious that our hearts had beaten in synch for a long time!

This past year the Lord used Julie in an incredible way to change lives of people that she has never even met!  Julie had placed a link on their blog to Reece's Rainbow, reecesrainbow.org, an organization that promotes the adoption of children with Down Syndrome and other medical issues.  I came across that link late one night while Victor was gone on a crusade.  I'm not even sure why, but I then placed the same link on my Facebook page.  A few weeks later I got an email from another best friend....also a "Julie".  Julie (Lambers) Faulkner and I had been inseparable best friends in Junior High.  This is another friendship that leaves me awestruck at the way that God gave me friends at age 12 that, 24 years later, share the same passions, joys, tears, struggles and loves as I!  The Lord had used that link on my Facebook page to confirm Julie and Chris Faulkner's call to adopt a child with Down Syndrome...a link that had originally come from Julie Kurrle's blog.....it was the Julie/Julie/Julie connection from Paraguay to Mexico to Ohio!

Julie and Chris are now in the process of adopting Ryan...thanks to a simple link on Julie Kurrle's blog, Ryan's life will never be the same...never mind Julie and Chris', their girls', extended family and friends' lives!  You can follow their adventures on their blog:  goingafterone.blogspot.com.

Ryan

When I found out that Julie and Chris were hoping that Ryan's adoption would be final this summer and that Julie and Norberto would be in the U.S. this summer visiting supporting churches and individuals, I had this hair-brained dream of finding a way to get the three Julie's and Ryan together.  Well, we will still be together, someday, just not when I had wanted, but it will be for all of eternity!

The day Julie and Timmy went Home, I found out about the accident from one of our other roommates, my very best college friend, more like a sister, Janelle.  I just "happened" to jump on the computer real quick that afternoon to make some photocopies She told me life-stopping news.  Julie and Timmy were gone.  I couldn't fathom it.  I still can't fathom it.  We cried.  Then we cried.  Then we cried some more.  The next people I called were my parents. 

And then, I called the other Julie, Julie Faulkner.  Even though she never met Julie Kurrle, their lives will be linked forever and she needed to know that the woman God used in order to make her the blessed mother of Ryan was now in Jesus' arms!

During that phone call I came to a realization.  Julie and Chris know that Ryan, barring a miracle, will not live to adulthood due to his many medical difficulties.  Victor and I know that our Daniel, barring a miracle, will not live to adulthood due to his congenital heart and lung defects.

  Daniel and I

 I told Julie Faulkner on the phone, with tears running down my cheeks and my voice cracking:  "You know, Julie, I had dreamed of the three of us Julie's being together here on earth and enjoying each other's adopted kids.  But now Julie can take care of the three boys, Timmy, Ryan and Daniel, until we are all in Heaven together and the "Julie section" is complete!"

Oh, our human finite ways of trying to understand, grasp, imagine all of eternity with an indescribable God!  But, somehow, it helps!



Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Birthday Galore

This past Sunday was my 36th birthday!  According to my children I am now "old"....not sure what the magic of "36" is, but I am wondering what they will think when I turn 40!  Words cannot express all that I am feeling and thinking as just a few weeks ago the world lost two precious people, one of my very good friends from college, Julie Kurrle, and her 6 year old son Timmy, when they were killed in a car accident serving the Lord as missionaries in Paraguay.  (I have yet to blog about that, but I will.)  So, while Norberto and Anahi (her husband and daughter) are suffering such unexplainable and unfathomable pain, I am celebrating a super-blessed 36th birthday!  It's not fair!  Yet, I believe that I most honor the Lord by fully embracing the joyful moments, thanking Him for His incredible love, undeserved grace (duh, that's an oxymoron-it can't be grace if it is deserved) and faithfulness.  And, when horrific, painful moments come, I will most honor the Lord by fully embracing those moments, thanking Him for His incredible love, undeserved grace and faithfulness.

I woke up early Sunday morning and found the following arrows leading me to my office upstairs:


So, at 5:45 a.m., by myself in the hallway, I counted to three and opened my door....


Wow!  There were balloons and streamers all over the place, plus lots of signs with loving messages from my kids hung all over the walls and windows!  Of course, by then the tears were flowing freely!  Just as they were getting under control, I saw the mailbox.....


Angie had made a homemade mailbox out of cardboard, painted and decorated it and then had all of the kids write beautiful notes or draw pictures for me, put them in envelopes and in my mailbox!  It was stuffed full!  (I really enjoyed her creativity in sticking the mailbox in a vase so that it wouldn't tip over!)

So, devotions Sunday morning were love letters from my kids....I think the Lord understands!  It was incredible the way each of their personalities came out in their letters and notes!  They each touched me in such a special way, but one that particularly encouraged me was from Alejandro, the most recent addition to our family.  He is 12 years old and quite the handful at times, having never lived under loving authority, which most 12 years old don't particularly like anyway, and even less when structure, order and chores are totally new concepts (along with love, kindness and generosity, rather than revenge, self-defense and an "I'm out to get you" attitude towards the world in general).  In his rough handwriting and misspelled words that appear to be more like those of a seven year old, rather than a 12 year old, due to the fact that he had never gone regularly to school, he wrote:  "Thank you for accepting me because now you are my mom.  Thank you for accepting me because now we are a family."  I leaned back on the loveseat in my office and whispered out loud, with tears on my cheeks:  "He's got it!  He's got it!"  (This was particularly moving because we had just gotten through one heck of a week together...I will leave that part to your imagination!)

Guess what?  Jesus gave me a birthday present too!  I teach a women's Sunday School class at church every week to about 30 women.  It is one of the highlights of my week!  We are wrapping up a series on spiritual gifts and I had been waiting for a particular email from a pastor in Canada with some information that I wanted to include in this week's class.  After having given up hope that he would respond, on Friday morning I opened my email and there were the long-awaited and very-much-needed files!  Praise God!  Well, I didn't download them (blonde error #3657) because, if they are in my email, I can access them whenever, right?  Wrong!  We lost our internet connection on Friday afternoon for unexplainable reasons.  By Sunday morning after having done every trick in the book (unconnect modem, turn off computer, reset modem, unplug everything, turn it all back on, etc.), and after having reported the problem to the phone company....nothing!  I reset the modem AGAIN!  Nothing!  So, I sat down at the computer, opened Word and told the Lord: "OK, Lord, I am going to prepare the worksheet for the ladies with the blanks to fill in, even though I don't even know what goes in the blanks because the answers are trapped in my email.  On the way to church, we will stop by Office Max and I will download the files.  That will only give me 15 minutes to go over the material before we get to church.  Help me out here, Jesus.  You know I didn't get the info until Friday.  You know Victor and the team are gone on crusade, Rosa is sick and I am in charge of the entire Ranch, school, cooking, etc."  I felt total peace and started typing away on the ladies' worksheet.  About 10 minutes later, out of nowhere, I glanced down and my internet signal was back!  I started to cry (for the third time that morning) and actually said out loud:  "Thank you, Jesus, for my birthday gift.....our internet connection....just on time!"

I am full convinced, now more than ever, that when Jesus calls we are to simply obey and He will provide all that we need in order to fulfill that call...even when what we need is an internet connection!  (Albeit, He does provide according to His time frame which, in my opinion, is usually cutting it a bit close:-)

And, now, for the icing on the cake!  Victor and the team got back home at midnight Saturday night from a great Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusade to Michoacan.  So, we were all anxious to have some family time together!  Victor surprised me by taking the entire family out to eat at his and my favorite restaurant.  We hadn't eaten there as a family in over two years, so it was a very special outing!  There is nothing that I enjoy more than being with my family and few things fill me with more joy than to be in a public place and have 18 kids of just about 18 different shades of color calling out, "Mom!" and watching all the heads turn!  God is so good!  (Even in the bad times... God is so good, because He just is good...He is the definition of goodness!)

It's the Zaragoza version of "The Last Supper" painting!


Chocolate cake will always make me smile like this!

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Adventures with Martha

Life happening has prevented me from writing about life happening!  And there is a lot of life happening with 18 kids around!  Gabriel, a family friend of ours and the person who produces our Fishers of Men promotional DVD's, was at the house the other day working on a new DVD.  I caught him kind of just standing there and gave him a quizzical look.  He responded:  "This place is just so real."  Yeah, that would be one way to describe Refuge Ranch...."real".  There are real successes, real failures, real hugs and real fights and, last week, even real accidents!

Last Friday one of the kids called me out of school because Martha was in her room crying and holding her head!  I went to see her and she just kept repeating, "My head hurts", but could give no explanation as to what had happened or even how she had gotten to her bedroom!

I went back downstairs and started asking around until one of the other kids informed me that the phone had rang and that, after several rings, Martha and Martita had both ran to answer it.  (Up to this day, I don't know who called!)  However, they collided on their way to the phone and Martha fell and hit her head on our cement floor!  Since she had gotten up right away and gone to her room, everybody around assumed that she was OK.  Well, a half an hour later she could not remember what had happened (although she knew who we were, the day, her own name, etc.).  Worst yet she would ask me, "Mom, why does my head hurt?"  I would explain what had happened and no more than a minute later she would ask the same question again!  This happened over and over in less than five minutes and I realized that she was not retaining any new information!  I thought:  "This could make school a little difficult!"

A few minutes later Victor pulled up from running errands.  After informing him of the latest happenings, we decided to take Martha to the nearest private hospital, about 25 minutes away, to have her checked out.  After x-rays that threw out any possibility of a skull fracture, and an IV for inflammation and pain, Martha seemed to perk up and we were released from the emergency room.  However, by the time we got home 30 minutes later, Martha was crying again and was still confused and unable to retain any new information.  So, we called Dr. Escamilla, our lead doctor on the Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusade volunteer team and a retired military doctor.  He, in turn, contacted a medical school friend of his who is a neurosurgeon.

Enter the next piece of the puzzle, "our" volcano, Popocatepetl, has been very active for the last two weeks and the level of alert has gone up one level.  (We call it "our" volcano because it dominates the eastern horizon at Refuge Ranch and is framed by all of our eastern windows.)  So, Victor did not feel comfortable leaving the rest of the kids at home with Adrian and Vero while he and I traveled nearly 3 hours to the north side of Mexico City to see the neurologist with Martha.  I didn't feel right about having Martha go to the doctor with Adrian and Vero, but without a parent.  The solution?  Victor stayed home with the kids and I went to the hospital with Adrian, Vero and Martha.

The Popo from a news photo.  This view is from the opposite side as Refuge Ranch.  Here you can see the crater, which is not visible from our side.

Martha in the hospital.

After a thorough external neurological exam, the doctor decided to admit Martha to the hospital for observation.  I was so glad that I had gone with her and felt much relieved that if her condition changed during the night there were people around to help out!  After more IV's and some rest, she seemed quite a bit better the next morning and was released around noon.  We finally got home around 6 p.m. to a volcano that had never exploded (thank the Lord!) and a family anxious to have Martha back!

 Both of us happy right before Martha was released from the hospital.

Today, Thursday, she finally seems back to normal...not sleeping so much, not forgetting things and having a good laugh every time the phone rings and we yell: "Martha, don't run to the phone!"  The Bible promises: "that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28) and this situation has proven no different.

When Martha first joined our family, she had a noticeable lack of strength and control over the right side of her body.  With exercises at home, given to us by an orthopedic physician, the condition has improved quite a bit.  However, when the neurologist examined her he, of course, noticed the deficiency on her right side.  So, he has asked us to have an electroencephalogram (EEG) done in the next few weeks for him to check out and see if he can determine what caused her condition and if anything can be done to improve her coordination and motor skills.

We are so thankful to now have a neurologist whom we can trust to dig into Martha's situation and see how we can more effectively help her to be all that God wants her to be!  We praise the Lord for His graceful protection and that her fall did not lead to anymore complications.  We continue to ask for your prayers as she could still experience effects from the fall for up to 6-10 weeks.

I have shared on other occasions about health care in Mexico:  the lack of its availability and quality.  Government hospitals are infamous for having a lack of equipment, lack of staff and for making people wait for hours, even in serious medical situations!  Therefore, our family uses private doctors and hospitals.  However, in order to be seen at a private hospital you have to walk in with money in cash, in hand.  In order for Martha to be seen at the second hospital, I had to lay out nearly $500 dollars upfront, just for her to be attended to!

The most feasible "health insurance" for our family is a separate bank account that we have set up as an emergency medical account, with the goal of having $1000 always in that account and available in the event of a medical emergency.  The day we went to the hospital with Martha, that account had only $365.00 dollars in it, due to past medical expenses.  Martha's medical care this past weekend totaled $675.00.

Therefore, I would like to share three immediate financial needs that our family and ministry has in the medical area:
  • the additional $310.00 to cover Martha's medical expenses from this past weekend
  • $1000.00 to replenish the emergency medical account in order to be prepared in the case of any type of medical emergency which would require cash to be available on-hand for our family or staff member to receive the needed medical attention
  • six of our children need eyeglasses (with several more left to be examined this coming week).  The volunteer optometrist from the Evangelistic Medical Mission Crusades examines the kids and does not charge us for her services, but we need to pay for the glasses.  The cost for the six children who currently need glasses is a total of: $175.00 - a little less than $30.00 per child!
If the Lord leads you to give towards any of these needs, you may send your tax-deductible contribution to:

Fishers of Men
P.O. Box 352016
Toledo, OH 43635

Or you can choose to go directly to our website: fishersofmenmexico.org to donate directly on-line!

Speaking of the website:  it's gotten a makeover! So, click on over and check it out!

BONUS PICTURE:

Three year old David trying to push his loaded dump truck!