|Angie and Juan|
Angie became my eldest daughter at age 11, over 16 years ago! And, now, she is married! While no words, not even pictures, can fully nor accurately express the depth, width, and reach of this wedding into our hearts and lives, I will do my best to share with you all that it meant and means, through the best means to share about a family wedding….a wedding album!
So, enjoy this blogbum (blog+album=blogbum) about Angie and Juan’s special day!
Who: Juan Angel Torres and Angelica (Angie) Velazquez
When: October 26, 2019
Where: the garden of Juan’s parents’ home in Acapulco, Mexico
Of course, preparation began weeks and weeks before the wedding as we prepped five bridesmaids’ dresses, went to fittings, tried out hairstyles and makeup options…and Grandpa taught Caleb how to put on a tie!
|Ana at her dress fitting|
|Caleb and Grandpa working on the tie|
Their second story patio provided the perfect stage with the Pacific Ocean as the perfect backdrop for the civil ceremony.
As part of the civil ceremony, the bride and groom’s parents are seated in front of the judge and then take part in the signing of the marriage certificate. In a totally normal gesture, the judge simply read Juan and Angie’s parents’ names directly from their respective birth certificates, not including my name, of course, because I have legal guardianship, not legal adoption, of my children. Juan’s mother and father and Angie’s biological mother took their places, while I remained seated with the rest of my family. As the judge continued on with the ceremony, Angie politely interrupted him and said: “I have another mom.” He respectively motioned me to the seat next to her biological mother. What a beautiful moment! Sixteen years ago, I choose Angie to be my daughter, how precious it was to be chosen by her to take that seat!
|Signing the marriage certificate|
|A mother daughter hug!|
|Angie and Juan after the civil wedding ceremony|
|Little sister Ana playing the piano prelude for the wedding.|
I am assuming that other families with absent fathers have faced moments in their lives when a father is just “expected” to be on the scene…for example, when it is time to give away a daughter at an altar! Like many, our family faced that situation. While sin creates brokenness and emptiness, Christ expertly shows up with redemption and healing! Josiah, my eldest biological son, was only 3 years old when Angie became his older sister, and Caleb was born three weeks after Angie joined our family. (She changed many of his diapers!) So, my boys have no recollection of life without their older sister! How moving to watch these two, now young men, walking their sister down the aisle, an action indicative of the many manly roles they have come to occupy in our family.
|Josiah and Caleb walking Angie down the aisle with David carrying the train.|
Practical marriage advice was lovingly shared through God’s Word by Grandpa, my dad, Dave Claassen, and translated into Spanish by Josiah, his grandson. How special can you get?
As part of wedding ceremonies in Mexico, the bride and groom choose special guests to present them with meaningful gifts. I had the honor of presenting Angie and Juan with their first Bible as a couple, while my parents had the privilege of providing them with their wedding rings!
|The giving of the Bible|
|The giving of the rings|
|The official kiss!|
|Love my kids!|
My parents continue to shine in their roles as Grandparents of so many!
|Grandpa and Grandma with the bride and groom|
What a blessing to see my second eldest, Diana, and her family: Robbie and my grandson, Liam; as well as meeting my newest granddaughter, Layla, for the first time! Martita, my third eldest, and her husband, Leonel, proudly showed off their precious treasure!
Adrian and Vero, while staff members with Fishers of Men, truly occupy the place of family in our hearts and lives. Considered uncle and aunt, along with little cousin Isaac, they fill our lives with love, support and much joy!
|Vero, Isaac and Adrian|
Over a decade ago, the Lord called Ashleigh Weis to join our staff here at Refuge Ranch as a short-term missionary. While her time on site might have only spanned several years, the friendship, as well as her commitment to the ministry, has become lifelong. She now serves as the Fishers of Men Board President and we were greatly blessed by her and her sister, Amanda’s, presence at the wedding.
|Ashleigh and Amanda|
If one word could describe this wedding, I would choose FAMILY! What a testimony to God’s faithfulness and redemption!
When I felt the Lord’s call on my life at the age of 13, He began to plant in me the desire to create a family for those who needed a family. Throughout these years, sin, circumstances and Satan have threatened that vision incessantly. While we have much growing, and healing, left to do, a family we are….by God’s grace and for His glory!
Angie and Juan, my prayer for you is that you may live out and enjoy everyday the beautiful and delicate dance of God’s grace and love in your marriage!